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Dick & Dildo December is over but Jizz January is here! We love oral sex, both giving it and receiving it. It is one of the most intimate experiences a couple can share together. Pleasing our partner is an amazing physical way to become that much closer. We have already featured articles on things you should not to do mid-blowjob, parts one and two. Camille Crimson, for example, talked about her favorite blowjob tips. Follow Camille's wonderful article, But what other things we should be doing while engaging in the blowjob? Since we have had great response to our cunnilingus 101 article, we thought it was about time we wrote a an article on the, blowjob 101. Here are our ten tips for giving an amazing blowjob! GetLusty's Lora Swarts reports.

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I am sure you have heard it before, "Sex is a lot like pizza. When it's bad, it's still pretty good." Men love oral sex and no matter what, when you are going down on him, he is in absolute heaven. Women? We need a little more than some mediocre pizza. So, if you really want to blow past his expectations and give him the best pizza he has ever had, read these ten tips on how to give a great blowjob! Sure oral sex is different for everyone, and that is why consent and communication are the only ways to know what he wants and what makes him feel good! Without further adieu....

Get accustomed with the penis anatomy 


Sure a penis is not as intricate as a vagina. But we think it's important to still educate ourselves on the penis anatomy so you know just what's going on!

Just like women, men don't always groom the hair down there. So don't feel grossed out or deny oral pleasure because your guy has a little pubic hair- hair is natural. What else is natural? Odor. You should never make someone feel bad for any kind of smell that is happening below the belt, because well, that is just rude and doesn't turn anyone on.

Making someone feel confident is the best kind of foreplay. If it is an issue though, mention you want to shower together pre-sex. It is not only a great way to bond and feel intimate, but you will feel clean and more willing to go down on each other. Now that that's over, let us move on to the anatomy. A human penis is the external sexual organ of a male. Now it certainly has more parts internally than externally, but unlike a vagina, we only focus for the most part, on the outer parts. The penis consists of the scrotum, glans (head) of the penis, shaft (corpus cavernosa and corpus spongisum), testes and urethral opening and foreskin. Now that we know what's going on down there, lets move on to the fun part! The actual blowjob! Here are our ten tips for giving great head.

#1 Eye contact 


Once and awhile, gaze up at your guy. There is nothing sexier then looking into each other's eyes as your mouth is wrapped around his penis. Hold his gaze for just a little bit, then return to focusing on the job at hand.

Always use this eye contact moment to see how he is doing. Listen for his moans, or watch his facial expressions. If something doesn't seem to be working for him, communicate.

#2 Use your hands! 

Sure it's a blow job, but your hands always make them better! Make an "o" shape with your hand and wrap it around his shaft. As you bob up and down his penis, your hand will act as though you are taking him all in at once! Plus the mixture of a hand job and blow job gives him different and pleasurable sensations.

#3 Lick him like an ice cream cone

I am sure this is a pretty self-explanatory tip. Keep your tongue flat and lick his penis from the base to the tip slowly like it's melting ice cream. Not only does this just look sexy, but it feels damn good for him too!  

#4  Play with his balls 

Since we just mentioned licking him like an ice cream cone, why not talk about the nuts that usually accompany the ice cream split? Licking his balls and gently sucking on them provide an amazing feeling. Gently stroke and lick by taking one ball in your mouth at a time and using your tongue to play with it. Then move on to the next ball.

#5 Pace yourself

Pacing is important in making a blowjob not only feel great, but it also keeps him on edge, anticipating the finale. Instead of having a constant rhythm bobbing up and down, try this! Bob up and down slowly five times. Then mix it up with three slow, two fast bobs. Mixing up your speed and pace helps with the anticipation- which is key to amazing oral.

#6 Tongue action 


Use your tongue and swirl it in circles around the tip/head of his penis. Then, go in the opposite direction. He will definitely gasp and moan since this area is super sensitive.
#7 Suction

Create a suction action, popping his penis in and out of your mouth. Place the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth and then with his penis in your mouth, slide your tongue backward. It is like you're vacuuming his dick, in a pleasant way of course. Picture sucking on your thumb as a kid and his penis is your thumb. Some men are very sensitive however, so ask him to suck on your finger first, to show you how he intense he wants the suction to be.

#8 Explore

Depending on your guy, exploration can be really hot. Maybe play with his butt hole with your fingers.   Explore his scrotum territory. The scrotum is located behind the penis, and is the sac (pouch) that contains the testes, blood vessels and part of the spermatic cord. Lick his scrotum as you move your hand up and down his shaft. He will feel an ultimate wow sensation. Once you are ready for his cock again, guide your tongue up the underside of his penis and hear him moan as your suck his head back into your mouth.

#9 Play with yourself too

Sure giving a blowjob is all about well, his penis. But guess what? When you moan, groan and get turned on, he gets harder! So if you have a free hand, go ahead and start playing with yourself too. Don't forget to gaze up at him when you are sucking on his dick and playing with your clit. He will have trouble containing himself seeing you as excited as you are!

#10 Swallow?  

If you don't mind swallowing, do it! Or if swallowing isn't your thing, request that you want him to come all over your stomach, in between your breasts or on your face.

See what he wants and let him release however he wants (but we recommend either talking it out first or sensually talking about it throughout the process). That'll make his orgasm all the more wild!

Blowjobs shouldn't be intimidating and should just be fun. Communicate effectively and use some of these tips to make your blowjobs that much better. He will surely love to reciprocate back to you. And if he does, mention our cunnilingus 101 article for tips.

Lora is our Editorial intern and resident health nut. When she is not writing and editing, you can find her on her yoga mat, exploring Chicago via bicycle, or hanging out with her wonderful boyfriend and Beagle puppy in their north side apartment. She has a habit of spending too much money on soy lattes and yoga clothes. Find her on Twitter @HoneyNutLo. Have any questions? Email her at Lora@GetLusty.com!

Because 2012 is still lingering in our memory, and it's Jizz January, we wanted to give more ideas around blowjobs. Did we mention we love giving and getting head? Camille Crimson inspires us to give better head. She knows a thing or two about blowjobs. She's been managing SlowMotionBlowjob.com and TheArtofBlowjob.com for some time now and has made some pretty hot films of herself doing just that. Camille advocates oral sex and pleasure. She has given us her top tips on how to give a blowjob and how to even how to respectfully receive a blowjob! Now our blowjob guru is here with 10 places to give and receive a blowjob! Want to spice it up a little? Follow Camille's advice because she knows what she's doing!

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As a huge fan of blowjobs, I give them a lot. They're part of my life and who I am and I want more people to feel free to enjoy that part of themselves as well. But where? Well, I sat down and thought of some great spots to try out the oral arts (and then some!) from right at home to far-reaching destinations. Blowjobs (and cunnilingus too!) are good acts for experimenting with sex in different places because if you get interrupted (and let's hope you don't) you can zip up and play dumb pretty easily. So, let's get going!

#1 In bed 

Let's start with the basics. Blowjobs in bed are pretty great. You can take turns laying down, you can prop yourself up with pillows, you can get under the covers if it's cold. It's also the perfect place to get extremely playful and exploratory.

You can lay your head over the side of the bed while your partner enters your mouth from above for great deep throating, you can try different ways to 69 for wonderful (and comfortable) mutual pleasure and you can move the fun anywhere else in the house.

#2 In the kitchen

When you're cooking something up with your partner, things tend to get pretty flirty. Maybe you spill a little something on yourself and need to take off an article of clothing.

Maybe you taste test something off of their finger and it inspires you to suck on something else. You can get down on your knees, roll around on the floor (and you can check to make sure nothing rolled under the fridge while you're down there) or get him sitting up on the counter to get better access. You can use whatever sexy foods you have on hand to lick off each other. Why not use a little oil to stroke him while you suck him for a silky smooth handjob. Just make sure not to burn anything while your attention is less focused on the cooking.

#3 While taking a bath or shower 

Playful splashing! Sensual soaping up! Feeling all fresh and clean, then getting all fresh and clean again after! Just a few of the great reasons why blowjobs in the bath/shower are lots of fun. A few words of caution: Don't slip! No matter how good it feels, don't lose your grip.

 If you're giving a blowjob on your knees under the shower, be sure to angle your eyes away from the stream so you don't end up with runny mascara stinging your eyes. And if you're in the bath and you want to see how long you can hold your breath, just be realistic about it. You're not Aquaman! As long as you play it safe, this is one of the most erotic ways to enjoy a blowjob.

#4 At a public restroom

Home washroom play can be fun, but there is something very sexy about sneaking away together to have a quickie in a secluded spot while at a bar, restaurant, concert etc. This invariably means the public restroom. If you luck into a place with single stall rooms, occupy it if there's more than one and you'll be assured a nice, leisurely blowjob.

 If you're in a multi-stall room, you'll need to be a lot more quiet and try hiding behind him so that you can't overtly see two sets of feet. A lot of people love this kind of thrill, so go for it!  Just be sure to hurry up if anyone knocks and don't feel too embarrassed when you walk out.

#5 Up against a wall in an alley 

For those of us in big cities, we've all seen a couple giggling and holding hands as they sneak into an alley for… most likely a blowjob. Of course, there's the risk of getting caught, but if you can be discrete and ready to leave at a moment's notice, you can take advantage of urban life by infusing it with your sexuality. Squatting instead of kneeling is a good way to avoid sore knees from the sidewalk and leaning up against a wall is the best way to ensure that you're out of the field of vision. This can feel a little dirty, but only if you want it to. It's a playful way to take sex out into the streets-literally.

#6 Under the table 

This is fun whether you're in public or at home, though this would be a pretty high risk thing to try at a restaurant. Mostly, it's a nice way to always be surprising with the blowjob. You can't be seen, so every change of speed or sensation is totally unexpected. This can be really thrilling. And if you happen to catch a glimpse of each other and lock eyes covertly under the table, there's a real jolt by having that moment of connection. Try this at home and, well, proceed with caution if you try it anywhere else. It's better to covertly tease each other under the table to start.

#7 The great outdoors 

I've been lucky enough to give blowjobs in a stream, in a field, on a beach, and in the forest. There's nothing more lovely than feeling the wind in your hair and seeing the beauty of nature all around you while you enjoy this sensual act. It's pretty easy to find secluded spots in the wilderness and it brings out your animalistic side and all the desires that come along with it. So, next time you're on a road trip, camping or on vacation at a lovely beach, lay down and marvel at the stars or the bright blue sky while savoring a beautiful blowjob.

#8 In a car  

This reminds me of getting out of the house to have a moment of privacy. Parking is an antiquated concept in a way, but it still goes on and you can do it even once you have your own private space, just to spice things up. I'm not advocating road head (drive safe!) but I do think that there's a really sexy feeling that comes with leaning over from one seat to give a really erotic blowjob.

 You can be in the passenger's seat or the driver's seat metaphorically and literally. Just park somewhere low-key and unexpected. No one likes hearing that tap on the window.



#9 On camera 

This isn't really a place, but it is in a way. Giving a blowjob on film is pretty incredible, speaking from personal experience. Being filmed is exhilarating, you end up feeling like you're giving the best blowjob of your life because you're paying extra attention to feeling sexy and then you can watch it again to enjoy how hot it is. If you do want to take it to the next level and to another "place" by putting it on the Internet, just be sure to stay as anonymous as you can unless that's not the point. Hide anything identifiable from view. Then wait for the comments to come rolling in, spurring you on to more passionate blowjob exploration.

#10 From the rooftops

Have you ever wanted to declare your love from the rooftops? Well, you can sort of do that with a blowjob. This is for the real adventurer. If you have access to a fire escape, then you can conceivably climb up a short building for a nice view of the night sky and an unforgettable blowjob experience- if you're up to the challenge.

What's your favorite place to enjoy a blowjob?

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles. Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson and on Facebook.

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At GetLusty for Couples, we love a good blowjob. And what better time to talk about ideas on giving amazing head than right now? Tis' the season to give and receive. Yes, there are thousands of variables on giving a blowjob. Today, however, our favorite blowjob connoisseur Camille Crimson is here to help us with ideas for how to finish a blowjob (think: ejaculation).

Swallowing, spitting, facial. How do you finish off your man? Camille Crimson covers 5 ways to enjoy your man's cum. You don't know about Camille? Well, she's been running TheArtofBlowjob.com and SlowMotionBlowjob.com for some time now--specializing in sensual, beautiful and erotic blowjobs. Needless to say, Camille knows her way around blowjobs! Want ideas on how to finish of a blowjob lovingly? Read on!

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People often come to me wondering if there's any surefire way to finish off a blowjob to really drive their partner up the wall with orgasmic intensity. I can't say there's only one, but I wanted to enumerate a few options here that you can try out and then see which one works best. This is the kind of scientific experimentation I'm sure you can both enjoy. But it's up to you if you want to wear lab coats and goggles!

#1 Swallowing

Tried, tested, and true. His penis is already in your mouth, so why rock the boat? For a lot of guys, this feels pretty amazing, especially if you continue with some degree of sucking or licking through his orgasm. Sometimes swallowing can be a little tricky, but you can usually make this much easier on yourself by positioning his penis further back towards/in your throat. Less taste and texture and it goes straight down. Of course, there are ways for him to improve the taste of his semen, as GetLusty has written before.

#2 Breasts

There are a lot of guys out there who really love breasts, and why wouldn't they? They're soft, pillowy and fun to play with. They're also a perfect target for a beautiful cumshot, all artfully splattered with the results of an amazing orgasm. You can do this several ways. Two of my favourites are either to just pull him out of your mouth at the last second to let him come all over your breasts and neck or to actually give him a titjob, which can include some sucking or licking if you can make connection with the head. Either way ends up being visually stunning and really erotic.

#3 Face

The facial is sometimes seen as a contentious issue, but I just see it as another way to enjoy the end of a blowjob. It can be a fun power dynamic exchange, but it can also just be a straightforward enjoyment of his orgasm close up. Cum is cum, no matter where it lands. You can take turns aiming, but certainly ask him to aim away from your eyes if you're planning on keeping them open. Aiming towards the chin and mouth is usually a safe bet, but you never know how intense some orgasms can be. Closing your eyes isn't the worst thing for the first couple of times while you familiarize yourself with the way he comes.

#4 Your hands, his body

If you're a little more squeamish about cum, you can definitely suck him and then stroke him for the last few pumps. Depending on how you're situated, this might end up with cum mostly on him or on you. It can actually be really sexy to continue stroking after, rubbing it into your skin and letting it slowly absorb. It's a great way to play with cum without having it in your mouth and it's also very sexy for teasing him as he softens.

#5 Elsewhere on your body

If your partner likes a specific part of your body, you can always segue the end of a blowjob to that part of your body. Whether it's your back, your feet, into your hands. It doesn't matter. Just make sure that you can manoeuvre quickly without getting too awkward and you'll end with a seamless transition to a beautiful ode to a beloved part of your body.

Of course, the joy is the ride, but the orgasm is certainly wonderful too and this should give you lots of ideas for ways to enjoy it to the fullest!

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles. Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson and on Facebook.

Quite a few men offline and online have asked this question. How can I get my partner to give me head? As usual, we're here to help. We understand asking your partner for a blowjob can be tricky. Most importantly, gentlemen, you don't want to appear to be a selfish lover. So for now, let's review the ways not to get a blowjob. GetLusty writer Crimson Love reports.

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#1 Don't be a selfish lover

If you are not willing to go down on your woman, don't even bother asking for a blowjob. Reciprocation is the best way to receive more love. Give and ye shall receive. Start enjoying cunnilingus. Ensuring that your lady comes first is the key to a great sex life. If she isn't orgasming (and you should know this by asking her, for example), how do you expect she's going to be extremely interested in your pleasure? She's worried about how she's going to be able to orgasm--not you! Not to worry, gents. We'll have more on selfish loving soon! And plenty of cunnilingus tips, too. Suffice to say, your goal should be her pleasure!

#2 Give positive feedback

As ladies, we don't enjoy hearing how horrible we are at giving head. Besides, how is that supposed to give me enthusiasm about going down on you? Don't tell her she should blow you because she needs the practice. That might get you a punch in the balls rather than get her to suck them. Instead, try telling her how much you enjoy feeling her mouth on your throbbing penis. That they've been waiting for her wonderful mouth. Tell her she makes you feel so amazing after you know she's been pleasured.


#3 Realize it's a privilege

Receiving head is a privilege. Not a right. So when you demand a blowjob as an expectation because, "that's what women do," you're very wrong. Be positive, and don't be demanding. When I say this, I mean don't act entitled like it's her life's mission to blow you all the time. Be patient. If you think that a blowjob should happen everyday--please tell your partner. Talk to her about it. Unless she's absolutely in love with giving you head, she should be aware of your issue.

#4 Don't compare your lady

If your lady isn't in the mood to give you a blowjob, don't compare her to your ex or an old fling. If you think it will inspire some sort of competition and make her want to do it, you're wrong. It won't and may likely do the opposite. Trying to trump up competition isn't a loving thing to do. Instead, try telling her how amazing it was the last time she did provide you that amazing pleasure of giving you an amazing blowjob. She's amazing! No one can please you like she can. That will get you much closer to getting a blowjob in the future.

#5 Don't coerce

Don't just force her head down there. I am pretty sure that if you do, you won't find her down there again any time soon. We women don't want to feel force or coercion. Why? Well, it provides negative associations moving forward. If she's experienced trauma in the past, you may be heading down a road of therapy--or even just long conversations about boundaries. Be nice and you will receive nice actions back.

#6 Don't get mad

If she refuses after your efforts just let it go and don't get mad. Instead try to figure out why she said no.  Be empathetic. There is likely a good reason why your lady isn't feeling in the mood to go down on you. Maybe she has a negative association. Could you imagine being in her position? If she got mad at you for not going down on her? It'd feel pretty bad.

Keep sex amazing, gents! Be patient, nice and understanding. We'll respond with love and amazing head. If not now--soon!
This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love.
Crimson is our resident BDSM fetish expert. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's, she is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex--and she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!

Have story ideas? Get in touch with Crimson Love at amber@getlusty.com.

Men and women love head. We love to receive and hopefully, we love to give as well. Camille Crimson has given us lots of useful blowjob tips, and we've also asked men 6 ways not to ask for head. But we haven't had a male's perspective yet! How about for those giving head Thank goodness Brendan White is aboard the GetLusty for Couples team! He has cleverly written on 5 things you should never do during a blowjob. Part two is coming soon.

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